Lead with Patience

O holy Shabbes Inspirtation Vaera
Maqam Bayat/Nawa

Every Shabbat is associated with a musical figure called a *maqam,
Arabic cognate to Hebrew maqom, Place.

Our teacher said,
I am not a gifted speaker
I have stones in my mouth
my lips are covered
you know
inarticulate. [4:10, 6:12]

How are we to learn from him?

Lead with gentleness [Rashi]
be patient
tolerant
and to your detractors
speak with respect.

Balance —
To the qualities of strength confidence and courage
gevurah
on the left side
add patience
kindness
chesed
on the right side.

To the quality of stick-to-it-tiveness
netzach
on the right side
add gentleness and compassion
hod
on the left side.

Draw a line down the middle of your body with your thumb
move your hand up and down that line
there is your heart line
your balance
between left side and right side
there is your strength.

Lead with patience and understanding
speak with respect
even to your detractors
[especially to your detractors]

and find your center.